I see all the transactions online on an old shared account he is using.
Realllyyyy!?!? I'd talk to my lawyer and see if it's legal for you to get some of your money out of a shared account. I would not do it without the lawyer saying it's okay...
Really take care of yourself NLW and that means nailing his wee willy winky to the wall if that's what it takes to provide for your children. I hope your taking the time to love and care for yourself.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
