If you had a friend who called you up and told you that his wife spent the majority of her time with friends he had never met, including weekends away and last minute overnights, that she consistently makes and breaks plans with him, but that sometimes she's nice, and he wanted your take on it and your advice, what would you say to him?

If you told her you were going to join her for dinner with her girlfriends (you didn't ask her, you told her), what would she say?

If you told her you were going to join her for the trip to Atlantic City, what would she say?

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015