Me- LBS or WAS?

[littleGTO]

Thanks, everyone, you are all right about just sitting with things for a while.

Tomorrow H comes home from trip with 2 of the boys. He undoubtedly will ask me about what he said about possible moving in.

I have my boundaries (that I previously stated & will repeat).

Tomorrow afternoon we have an apptmt with a team of mediators (a meet and greet consultation). I think we both are agreed that we will go to that and then just take some time before any decisions are made.

AS- I agree that H has a LONG way to go before he's in a position of wanting to reconcile. Right now he's in panic mode b/c OW is newly out of the picture & he's worried he will be doing life alone.

Tori- As I said to ruby, I'm not sure I want to save my M anymore. To me it was already over...all but the paperwork. I was ready to move forward with that. In H is still "with OW" in his heart/head, not with me in any way.

A happy, healthy family cannot exist without the foundation of a strong marriage. It just can't and I refuse to put our family together without it's foundation because it will ultimately crumble (again) anyway. No, the marriage has to come first.

So, I will just sit with all of this and see what unfolds in the days, weeks, and months ahead.