So, if I understand correctly, she can text you anywhere, anytime? Then surely she would let you know when it was one of the kids sick or hurt.
Sometimes I try to say too much in one post. And I am very bad at assuming someone knows. So always ask if there is any doubt....or if my mind gets too fast,for my fingers to keep,up and I leave something out.
Let me go back to your W calling,several times today. You,don't have to ignore her calls. Since you have two little children, there is always a certain risk (which we have already discussed). But the point is to ask her if anything is wrong, find out the facts, and if all she wanted to do was chat........then you know what to do, right?
I also meant to refer to something T1000 said earlier about maybe him (or anyone) not posting so as not to add confusion. I want to make it perfectly clear that I am not suggesting anyone stop! This is a support forum and I would not tell somebody else not to post on your thread. But I do want to point out to any newcomers who may come across your thread to read my advice for you........this does not apply to everyone in every stitch. If newcomers thought it was for them as well, then it could confuse them. They read this thread and jump over and read some other threads, thinking it apples to them. There is advice that pretty much fits most. However, when I arrived here, I didn't see anything for the WAW. It seemed to be advice for the LBS. DBing is geared toward the one wanting to save the M. ( I used myself as an example of people's stitch varying and needing individual tweaking). Is that all clear as mud?
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It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!