He is in the process of working out the agreement....his BIGGEST goal as of right now is getting me to start paying half the mortgage so I am in the process of doing my financials so he can see that once he pays my child support, spousal and disability spousal he'll actually be paying most, to all, of the current mortgage anyway.
He can file, but it will not go through, until 1 year from the date of separation. I've used my lawyer for one half hour call, a few emails back and forth between her and me and her and H's lawyer and one fax that I sent her of info, and it was $1000 CRAPPED MY PANTS and I told her from the beginning I am not into multiple back and forth that I need to be frugal with my money....I CANNOT even imagine what he has spent.....he has been there 2-3x what I have
Honestly, I do not contact him. I did last week, once, to ask him about the cell phone authorization and once to tell him I knew about his dad but, I do not send him messages or anything for things I can do myself or just to "check in" He wants nothing to do with me and I'm giving him that
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
