"What about her callings today – should I do something or just wait until she calls again? When should I pick up? What should I answer when she ask why I haven’t answered? Should I get the VM as T suggests – I really hate them, but if needed I will get one!!! (IMHO she will just leave a message telling me to call her and then I am in the same place)"
You're way overthinking things. I guess you didn't read my post. Get VM for emergencies. Again, you share children together. THEY should be your priority.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.