Originally Posted By: chl0901

I agree with most of the other posters that you should not try to mind read your H's text about contacting him anytime and wait for him to contact you! You sound like you're doing a good job with your 180s and being "pretty" (AKA beautiful, control, humble, and better than ever!). Love it.

Hi Chl0, thanks for your opinion, hope all is well with you!


Originally Posted By: Breakdown
Have you read "How to improve your marriage without talking about it"? If not, I highly suggest...your initial post in this thread seems to be in line with it and may help you go further down that path.


Hi Breakdown, no I have not heard of that book I will see if I can find it. Thanks for the suggestion!


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope