Sounds like you had a very good appt with Dr! Good for you for getting your questions out there!
Quote: Tonight is our hair appointment so hopefully that will go all right. I don't know whether to bring anything up or just let it be a no stress evening.
Well, hon...I've said this before but it bears repeating...more stressfree evenings with CHL = GOOD.
Don't bring up the settlement. You can set up an "appt" to do that with him another time. Use this night, this ritual you share, to just be with him...the woman he fell in love with, etc. You say that you hope it goes well..it WILL because you will go into it with pure optimism and all that YOU CAN DO to make it a positive experience.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
