F, I feel your pain in how to go this way with the texts. I just don't have an answer as I am not having this in my sitch. I would think, somewhere in the future you might have to ask your W to simply only call/text if it is an emergency or important about the kids. That way you can relate back to that conversation if it continues. I think you need to at least make her aware you don't want texts or calls for non issues. Again, my opinion. Please wait for what sandi feels is the best way.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
