I agree hot wheels You must listen to HWA 2old, even if you don't listen to me, lol. We're all going through the hurt and pain, but we're all trying to keep up our PMA. You're lucky than most of us, you've not started D proceedings, you're not having to split up your assets, Your W doesn't have an OM as far as you know and you've not got kids young enough to worry about. To name but a few things that are happening to some of us on here. As I said to you before. Imagine in a month's time, your W comes back with a suitcase and says to you that she's made a mistake. What will she see in you? Will she see a positive new you or same old, same old? If that was me and I saw same old you, I'd walk straight back out of the door again! What happened to the 2old that was going to the gym, dieting, getting motivated, etc? I know that you won't feel like doing any of this stuff if you're depressed, that's why it's important that you see a doctor. Have you made that appt yet?
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
So, today marks 4 months to the day my W left....And on Tuesday our 6th anniversary I broke DBing criteria and emailed her a nice email asking her to let me know her intentions filing or not and when. two days later she has not responded. I am out of thoughts regarding her now. I cant imagine not even responding to my question....
I think you've already given yourself a 2x4 for this 2old. I wouldn't expect a response, you need to give the NC longer than what you have done. I know I said to respond to her last email, so why didn't you do that instead of asking when she's going to file? Don't beat yourself up about it, it happens! It took a few false starts for me when I first started this NC and occasionally I'll still message him when there is no real reason to. With my new sitch though, I've had no problems keeping up with the NC. Now I don't want to hear another word about the email you sent, ok? Get over it and move on
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
2old, we make mistakes, it is as simple as that. What we need to learn is not to make the same mistake twice.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
You must listen to HWA 2old, even if you don't listen to me, lol. We're all going through the hurt and pain, but we're all trying to keep up our PMA. You're lucky than most of us, you've not started D proceedings, you're not having to split up your assets, Your W doesn't have an OM as far as you know and you've not got kids young enough to worry about. To name but a few things that are happening to some of us on here.