IMO telling her that I am busy will do for a short time but in the long run it will come off as false or telling her "I won't talk to you" - just in different words.

At the same time I still don't know if it is about the children she is calling and that worries me a bit!
Children could be sick, hurt, missing something or likewise. Also I left the childrens clothing at her place this morning (didnt see her!) and perhaps I forgot something important.

I am NOT looking for an excuse to talk with her - I am looking for a reason NOT to call her. I need this for myself to justify to me, that it is ok not to call - this will make it so much easier for me and this will properly happen a lot of times in the future to come.

I could also text her now: "I am busy - is it important?"

...then again I could just let it be and go to bed (10.45PM here!)

Me:44 W:43
D7, D5 (S11 from other R)

T: 8y - not M
ILYB: 8. Mar 2013
W moved: 1. Aug 2013
LRT: 20. Aug 2013
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