I am thinking about asking w to have dinner with me tonight. Since she asked me on Wednesday, it is maybe my turn to ask her? If we had met and just started dating I think the timing would be right. I kinda feel like so much time passes between the times we see each other that it gets awkward. I could also just try for the boating thing next weekend.. But if that happens, it would likely turn into a whole day + overnight thing which could be awkward. Any vets reading this? Any thoughts from anyone?
I've taken it in turns asking my H out. He paid for dinner one week so I said it was my turn the next time. It was a bit strange because that's not soemthing we did when we were dating - he always instisted on paying. The overnight thing might be awkward - it was for me the one time it happened with H (after the fact, not before or during). I'd say just play it by ear on the day. Don't expect anything and don't commit to it being more than just a few hours. Maybe have a plan B in case you either need an escape route because it feels too awkward, or just in case she cuts it short.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks