Thanks all with regards to the sons. I keep in regular contact and I try to show new PMA to them. Not much else I can do, until I move back to the city.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.