Sorry to hijack the thread but these posts are proving to be an eye opener for me and am doubting my plan.
Sandi - you gave me some good advice last August/September when I was going through S. I wonder if you have time could you have another look at my sitch as I too seem to be stuck in the 'friend' zone. I did a lot of what you are suggesting initially which served me well. However, I seem to be stuck in the limbo you talk about....albeit my timeline is a bit further on.
Fartiltre - I don't think anyone can add to what Sandi is saying. Good luck.
