You had asked for some of the things I read. Here are a few.
walk out woman, project happily ever after, his needs/her needs, 5 love languages, dr. phil books, art of seduction, love must be tough, the definitive book on body language, how to save your marriage alone, the art of intimacy, the art of loving, all the books by gottman and a bunch more.
I also listened to a ton of marriage podcasts and read many blogs including: one extraordinary marriage, focus on the family, stay happily married, project happily ever after, the sound marriage show, etc.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
