So Drained

[TryingToDo180]

Thanks for the update hurt I'm glad you managed to do some GALing this weekend, it seems to have paid off
Very curious about the talk that your wife had regarding where you are going with your relationship. I know I would choose piecing as well, but you can't really do this if she's still acting like a teenager. She sounds just like my H at the moment, hanging round people younger than him and having a good time. I wouldn't have my H back the way he's behaving at the moment, he needs to grow up! I know your W isn't going through a MLC, but she's definitely trying to relive her youth. I don't even think she knows what she is doing, she's going all out to have fun (again like my H). She'll run out of steam one day and wonder what on earth she is doing? Of course as you know, she's got to work that one out by herself!
I think it's time to make yourself unavailable. Plan to go out in case she doesn't stick to her dinner date, so at least you'll have a back up plan. Remember Sandi's rules - Accept 3 invites out of 5.
She seems to be making more of an effort this weekend, going to the beach with you and going along to watch you on Sunday. It seems that she wants to try piecing with you, but she's still hanging out with these other people!
Like you I wonder what she'll do when these friends of hers go home. Watch this space! Like you said damage has been done and it will take time to build that trust back. I think that applies to all us LBS!