Hi 2old, when I asked you when you started NC with your wife, I meant the date. I've just looked back over your threads and I think it was about the beginning of July when you started NC. It's still early days for you, remember baby steps Remind me why you didn't answer your W's last email? If it was something she wanted to know it's no wonder that she's not emailing you. This is how I work it, if he contacts me then I contact him back but I don't initiate the contact. If I were you I'd respond to her last email and say sorry I've just realised that I didn't reply to the last email you sent. The give the answer she needs and sign it off with your name. That's all you need to put Don't mention anniversary to her at all and no small talk!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Don't mention anniversary to her at all and no small talk!