I have actually given this some thought. On one hand, I am a few inches taller than OM and weigh 235 pounds. OM is maybe a buck 60 soaking wet. I also had a reputation as a fighter when I was younger, and wife knows this very well. I would highly doubt that he would have the guts to possibly engage me on my own property, and I doubt that wife would willingly put him in harms way. We will just have to see how gutsy he is. With that said, I do have a plan on how I will handle it. If I find him on the grounds I will approach him respectfully and ask that he immediately leaves the property. He is not welcome here. If he refuses, I will radio for backup from some of my staff so that they can verify that he was asked to leave. I will contact the Police to have him served with a verbal trespass warning, and I will physically remove him off the property myself. It will be that simple. The next day, wife would be moving out. This is where I am going to draw a line in the sand. The consequences will be huge. I am not going to verbalize this to wife, because I am sure it would end in conflict. It will just have to be a consequence she learns the hard way. Lets hope for every ones sake, she has a moment of clarity before she brings him here.
