Thanks for the post AS One rule that goes against sandi's rule is this one - 4. Date others. Make them jealous. Play hard-to-get. I have found that if you start following others rules, there's always contradictions in this and causes confusion (I'm easily confused!). The other part that is a bit contradictory is to phone them and make small and happy talk. If you're just learning about sandi's rules and DB, it's like giving that person permission to get in touch with their spouse (I can think of one person in particular regarding this!) then you'll be back to square one in your DB attempts. Other than that, it's a good article and the DBers who have been doing this for a while will know what to pick out and what to dump
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
