Turtle Goddess she of the hard shell soft

[RosaLinda]

"Sooo RL, idk about the viability of more life with H. And none of this even touches OW. OW = DEALBREAKER.

The cat's out of the bag, there's no putting it back. Lol, can you imagine, my H having to go through the rest of his life asking nicely for things!!

And that's just the beginning of my new standards. Even w/out OW what "was" is no longer viable."

Holy cow J. I see what you mean; you have some big decisions to make here I think. BUT...... to quote myself (LOL I never did that before) "couldn't facing the life changes and issues that enable a person to escape from MLC as a whole intact improved (I would assume moral) individual, also cause that individual to see that serial cheating is wrong?" Bringing that to the next level, to happily spend the rest of his life asking nicely for things? To be willing to be beholden to you because you love each other and that is what married people do? My vote is YES.

Do you have a DB coach or IC? Someone you can pour your heart out to? A FB alias?