I wonder what he means by this contact me anytime? Any opinions on this?
I think you're trying to read too much into it, I doubt he meant anything by it.
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I haven't contacted him since then. My plans were to go dark for the next 2 weeks and see what happens. But then advice from a co-work of mine, who is an older, pretty wise man, rings in my head. He knows a little about my sitch so he asked me if I had spoke to H recently, I told him a little, he said "good, I hope you two keep talking".
He's just contacting you when he needs something himself, that's no reason to start reaching out to him. Stick to your plan of going dark. I don't think 2 weeks is long enough though. You're going dark for you, not to try and get him back. It's to help you detach.
