AS, what consequence would you set for that boundary?

Sp, I think you're right not to engage further but I think you should think through what your options are if they did show up. You wouldn't want to do something in the heat of emotion that you would regret later. Testosterone and adrenaline can be a dangerous cocktail.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss