When I was talking about R just flowing I meant when you first meet. If I started a new R with OW, at the start it would be very easy compared to repairing things with W which as I know is challenging.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14