sorry I forgot about the assets I wouldn't normally let him sit up there on his own all day playing games, it's only because he's got a friend coming over that I'm letting him. Hope it won't take too long to split the assets. Have you got a mediator involved to help you communicate with your W over this? It can be really useful to have a go-between You don't want it to drag on and on or it will be very draining on you Do you still get to see your sons? Have they got their own lives now or are they still living with your W? At the mo my H is choosing work or friends over his son, but I've never stopped him from visiting him. It's just so annoying at the mo that he doesn't want to see his son. He must miss him or maybe that's where his mind is at at the mo.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!