Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

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TrentC, you are right. I agree its bogus and immature. I see his point but at the same time it's just what it is. He is 29 years old and just can't seem to suck it up and accept his life. He keeps going through these stages over the years and it really [censored] for me. He was away all weekend and so I got out of town too with the kids and went to visit my sister. It was fun and he was surprised when he heard what I did. He seems to just think I'm gonna sit at home and do nothing all the time. As soon as I show initiative to do something and get out of dodge he gets "curious". Or something like that. He definitely tested me all weekend. He seems to think when he is away he needs minimal contact with me. It's quite annoying. I understand he was on a course and busy but its not hard to make a minute to contact your wife.

He just goes through these stages where he needs to feel young and single and free. I hate it. Then once it subsides he gets back into the family man again...he isn't there yet that's for sure. When I did have the chance to talk to him this weekend he wasn't very loving at all. Every day is a new day. I never know what I'm gonna get with him. It's such an internal struggle.