There's a difference in being alone and being lonely. I'm an introvert so I'm OK with being alone more than some people but I do sometimes get lonely. Not very often and as time goes on it gets less so.
It took a while to get used to having my time be all my own, but it's actually good. Dinner doesn't have to be at a certain time, or at all. If I'm reading at 5 pm, I just keep reading. :)I have friends to do things with when I want that.
I don't like the mindlessly busy thing either.
It will work out, you'll get into a groove that works for you.
What kind of help would you ask for? Being vulnerable and asking for help is tough, I have difficulty with that also.
Thanks bug... yes lonely and alone are two different things, thats why we need good gAL I guess to expand our social network.
What kind of help would I ask for?? I actually ask certain friends if the way I acted was wrong and really try to listen. I also reach out to my friends now when something is weighing on my heart or am just feeling lonely. I huge twist from the usta subguy.
Hhmm I finally figured out the alt thing lol, only took me more than half a year. I am not normally that much of an air head but this time wow I was really stuck in stupidville lol...
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
