My H contacts me more since I stopped communicating with him. I would still go along with the NC and stick to it this time. Maybe if you get some new friends or new interests or hobbies then you might not think about her as much. I've suggested a few things you can do. Keep checking the local paper for anything that catches your eye. Even if it's just a few hours volunteer work, you'll make new friends and it'll look good on your CV I only ring my H back now if he rings first and I miss his call. Try and do something else on your anniversary so you don't think about it. I was having a carnival meeting at my house on our anniversary, so I didn't even think about it. Maybe you could go out for a meal with your D or cook a meal for her and her family? Just my 2 cents worth
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
