Originally Posted By: snodderly

WR, I would suggest that you keep your conversations w/family members to a minimum when it comes to your situation. The less they know, the better.


This is great advice. Wish I could do it but my dad lives with me and knows what is going on without being told. And of course he shares what he knows with my sisters.

They don't want to see you in pain. You need to remember that if and when you reconcile they may have a problem with your spouse because of what they know about what is going on now, and that could in turn cause new problems.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks