Originally Posted By: TryingToDo180
You should get any money off him that you need, after all they are his boys smile I just meant about making extra demands on him, stuff you can do without. Have you thought of doing a car boot sale or isn't there one near to you? That can be a great way of earning extra money smile
My H doesn't provide any extra money for his son, so I have to live on the money I get from the state for now. I should be starting up my own business soon, so that will be better for me smile


Ttd180 is right. He should be paying child support if nothing else. I'm still in negotiations with my H over that and he knows that it is backdated to separation. It'll be his bank account that suffers if he doesn't start paying soon. The least your H should be expected to do is support his kids.

In case you didn't get the "car boot sale" reference by Ttd180, it's pretty well a yard or garage sale. It's not a term used here in Canada but I remember how well organized they are from the years I lived in the UK.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks