You will get there F. I believe you have a very good chance with your sitch. Now with help from sandi2 and your ability to follow the rules, it has an even better chance. Time will be your buddy.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.