Lefty,

Wonka: You're a strong person for DBing as long as you are. I'm impressed. How long were/are you married?

Ten years. Don't let the length bother you much as it had no relevance when it comes to DBing. We've seen sitches where M have been going on for 35 to 40 years then they've been hit with BD. It varies.

There's tons of hobbies that are free such as hiking, bird watching, book clubs, cheese making clubs, outdoor adventures, meet up, playing chess, Scramble tourneys, etc.