HWA, that's the way to look at it, turn your negatives into positives I agree that this friend of mine was never truly a good friend else she wouldn't have turned her back on me during a time when I needed her. I spoke to one of her friends about this and she said the same thing. With your friend, when I said to go dark I didn't mean go totally dark. I just meant to stop contacting him and let him contact you. I agree with what F says though, send him a text but then leave it. If he is a true friend to you, he'll come round eventually. Hope it works out for you, it's horrible losing a friend.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!