My new normal (she has moved out)

[cbtdad]

I haven't posted on your post in a while Grizz. This seems very similar to where my W was for a while before I told her I was moving on.
I didn't say I was done or anything. I just said that I'm going to move forward with my life as if we are divorcing. I want nothing more than a chance to work it out, but I can't play husband to you when you are undecided if you want me in your life or not. I really started to give her space. It was a lot easier when I finally got to a point where I knew I would be ok with or without her.
She went to visit OM the last weekend in May. When she got back she had found out the grass wasnt greener on the other side and wanted to work on marriage. Once we were both on same page of wanting to save marriage we got MC and things have been really good so far. We moved to a new city for a fresh start and continue to see a MC.
My point is I think you need to let her know that she needs to decide what she wants. Y'all can still be separated and working on marriage like W and I did for 2 months. Just be ready for her decision good or bad.
That's where DBing helped me the most. Knowing I would be fine without her. I wanted my marriage, but knew i could get past it