So be it. I will leave.
I will give her only the agreed alimony which is enough for my kids.
I will make a schedule with W for visitations.
I can't be spending money on her mortgage.
I can't really focus on my project if I stay.

50% custody is out of my hands. Reversing the custodial rights is my best option but W's situation must change in order for that to happen.

M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet