WR, I have noticed over the years that God has a way of making us focus on other things. For example, family and/or friends in the hospital, car accidents, health issues, etc.
As for both fathers being the hospital at the same time...that is a bit odd, but maybe they are around the same age and are developing health issues. It does happen once in a while.
I do hope both fathers are doing okay and will be on the mend soon. Keep the focus on you and your children.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
