Hi DMR! You and your sitch are sounding pretty positive these days. It's nice that W is contacting you more and wanting to do things like go to the movies and do laundry together. I honestly believe that for us to get our marriages back once our spouses are over their MLCs, for US to be the one that they want to spend the rest of their life with, that it will be easier if we can stay on a friendly basis. To move back to being lovers would be easier from a place of friendship. 

And it's interesting that she asked you to look online to see about her getting a replacement for her phone, when she could have easily done that herself from her iPad. 

Keep up the good DBing. I'm up and down these days; it's nice to read your positive updates. 


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17