better to love or be loved?

[willbwell]

I have seen an attorney but not given a retainer. I do not plan to file. h will have to do that. h and I have spoken about finances. I have copies of financials. I believe h will do well by kids. the boys have college accounts. my d is handicapped so that makes child support a little trickier. d is 15. she can stay at her school until she is 22. told h I need to start looking into and we need to discuss costs of programs after she is 22. she will never live independently.
I start classes next week( I am in a 12 month medical assisting program)have been a SAHM all these years. asked h to slow down as my classes and kids are my priority, not dealing with a D. he gets to be separated and do his own thing.