The trap I'm referring too is that's it's very common to see folks around here get a few vibes of regret or sorrow from their spouses and they immediately think the their spouse is sending a signal that they want to come back.
They speak of not mind reading. Yet when it can be spun into a positive narrative in their mind they go all in.
Each one of these current board members got ran over by their spouses just recently. They threwGAL out the window and went running back. I
I have no idea where your husband is at in his head, hell even he doesn't. Just please keep doing what your doing because these steps are what have helped you come so far and may be making h have second thoughts
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
