Okay, thanks FY, I appreciate you checking in with me! I'm going to get ready for some 2x4's here, but I'm ready.

Went over to see cute D'ed guy last night. We played Yahtzee for stakes. (yeah, my idea.) Good conversation and lots of flirting, for sure. First 2/3 he won--got to choose between dinner (me make him dinner some night) or hug. I choose both & gave hug then & there. Very nice.

Second 2/3 he won again...choices were cookies (I had made him cookies earlier in the week & he loved them) or a kiss. I chose to a kiss. It was very, very nice...5 minutes nice!

But, we stopped and somehow we got onto our boundaries (which I thought long and hard about between last visit and this)--told him intimacy (for me) had to include emotions and he told him he just wanted to have fun (& seem to respect my boundary) right now..and would that work for me?

I said I think we are on the same page right now. I enjoy talking to him and flirting with him. I know...give me the 2x4's, but I am going into this with my eyes wide open. Doesn't mean emotions won't get involved but I am aware.

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.