better to love or be loved?

[Golfgirl1]

So, what do you want? Do you have an attorney; is there a need for one? Yes, it's fine to be civil, but protect yourself. You only get one shot to do it right and then you have to live with the outcomes. Make certain you know what is "fair" and what is rightfully yours. This just may be the toughest thing you will ever go through in your life, but the other side is pretty terrific once you get there. You will find possibilities and a life you never believed could happen.