Thank you for the support, WH and WR. I'll catch up on your sitches and post a reply.
Xh is trying to drag me back into the craziness. He texted me and the therapist today accusing one or both of us of lying and being uncooperative. I replied back that I'm tired of dealing with him. I've been kind to him and he continues to misdirect hostility towards me. I haven't done anything wrong. I just wanted clarification from the therapist which is reasonable and in the boys' best interest. I haven't heard back from him. He can sit with that for awhile. I feel a storm coming and am trying my very best to remain calm and faithful.
I want to block xh again. This all feels wrong. I certainly wouldn't let anyone else contact me with such nonsense. I know if I block him this situation will get worse. I just don't know what to do. I'm trying to cooperate so I can get the settlement signed, but even that isn't working. Help!