And there's me thinking you were out enjoying yourself and GALing, lol What have you been up to lately, any news to tell us? Did you finish sorting out your D's school? I realise it's tough for you. I've just been reading HWA's thread and has reminded me about something that I used to do when my H first left. 2old, do you ever blame yourself for W leaving? Do you ever feel that you're not good enough for her? If the answer is yes to one or both of those questions, then you need to do what I did. Repeat to yourself - I'm not to blame and I am good enough for her. Once you've repeated it every day for a couple of weeks, you start to believe it. Try repeating other things to yourself as well such as - I will focus on myself and not worry about what my W is up to. I don't bother about when she'll contact me again. etc, etc. Just try it, believe me it does work
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
What have you been up to lately, any news to tell us? Did you finish sorting out your D's school? I realise it's tough for you. I've just been reading HWA's thread and has reminded me about something that I used to do when my H first left. 2old, do you ever blame yourself for W leaving? Do you ever feel that you're not good enough for her? If the answer is yes to one or both of those questions, then you need to do what I did. Repeat to yourself - I'm not to blame and I am good enough for her. Once you've repeated it every day for a couple of weeks, you start to believe it.