WR, I'm sorry to hear about your father, but he's in good hands right now. Hopefully the tests will tell you and your family what is going on w/him.
As for your h, keep your expectations at zero. They can't handle people being in the hospital or being sick. It reminds them of mortality and they tend to shy away from people who are having health issues.
I'm surprised he even texted back. Say nothing more to him about your situation w/your father. He's a goner and it's no use setting your self up for disappointment. You and your mother did the right thing by telling him, but he can't deal w/it. I'm sorry that he can't and he sure can't say that he wasn't advised of the situation.
WR, turn the focus back on to you and your family. I'm keeping your father in my thoughts and prayers.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
