"She should have realized things would be different. If she continues to ask about it, then tell her that You will continue to co-parent but you will not be available for a buddy-buddy R with her. You will be friendly, but she rejected the R she had with you, so why should you want to be her BFF?" Fully agree with sandi2 here. I do not want to be buddies with the W. I want to work on our relationship/marriage. I want to be best friends and lovers as part of being married. Not friends because we have divorced/separated. F, I think everything above is the way you need to go. Your W does need to see what the other side of the fence is like, greener or browner grass? It may be green for a few months, but then if it isn't watered or looked after, it goes brown. One of the quotes I heard over the last few months was: "The grass is always greener on the other side, as it is fertilized with a lot of b**lsh*t." Take care F and keep the PMA.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
