Sorry TTD180. Guess I should have said out of the marriage instead of with OW.

I'm sure mine deliberately changes his plans so that I can't make any of my own. Of course he's not used to me having plans because my life always revolved around him and my son.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks