I feel sad that your W is missing out on getting to know you now and seeing your positive changes. Her loss! I personally can't understand the no communication road that she has gone down.
I also have to remember (because we do forget sometimes) that the W could/is still in a very EA maybe PA relationship with this other woman. They still do everything together, disadvantages of a small town, everyone sees them together. I still need to remember that the W took the ring off first day of BD, moved in asap with the EA friend, hasn't communicated with me really since BD and still does strange things that the family saw and didn't like (behaviour when not with EA friend).
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
