Hey HY,

I think that she continues to tell you about these things is great and agree that the fact that she can do this with the security of the old is good. It sounds like she feels safe keep telling you things and its good you are not judging, making comment etc. I think the longer this goes on the chances of her moving out become less and less.....until she tires of this 'fantasy life' which she will do eventually and starts to look back and realise you aren't the problem.

Keep going buddy. It all sounds positive in my opinion.