How can you mend a broken heart?

[Whiterose]

your poor eyes Linda but I'm so thankful it's something they can fix.

My H's family says nothing to me, or my boys, they just want H to be happy. One SIL talks to me but we don't talk about H much and when we do she is torn between not approving of him and wanting him to be happy.

MY family would like me to screw H to the wall. My BIL (sister's H) offered to give me his last dime to do so. I acknowledge their feelings, and validate, (almost DBing with them too) they DO have valid points and want our happiness.....I try to see it as coming from a place of love. I then tell them that they are sick and it's been 20 years of my life and four months is not nearly enough time to make a decision like that.

Take care of yourself....try a yoga class:)