I think I mentioned before that IMHO if a guy is into you he will pursue! He will think of ways to contact you, amuse you, and keep himself in your thoughts. Dave has never struck me as one who does that and you want to be romanced!. If he acts like you've been married for ten years then who really wants that after a few dates. But maybe he's just a different kind of guy...yet the only guys I know who don't actively pursue are usually not that into it. I say, go with your gut. But, if you find every guy you date is the "problem" then you've got something to look at about yourself as well and maybe, as Barb has suggested, your expectations are too high. Who knows? This dating thing is an enigma inside of an enigma to me lol.
