If he really believes that he has a right to do whatever he wants, society be damned, that's pretty much the dictionary definition of antisocial personality disorder—in other words, one of the hallmarks of being a sociopath.
This is all starting to sound like classic midlife crisis. How old is your husband again?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement